Counseling for Individuals
There are many reasons people enter individual counseling.
Single Life
Being single in today’s world is, in some respects, the same as it always has been….and not.
Life for singles at this point in our history, has more challenges and also more opportunities than ever.
Being single is a unique experience – personally and professionally.
You may also be very content being single. Increasing numbers of people are. For many, being single isn’t a "condition" that needs to be “fixed” but, rather lived, explored, and celebrated.
For others, being single is fine, for now, but they also have a desire to share their lives with a partner.
If you are single, you may or may not want to be in a committed relationship. If you do, there are many questions that you may be asking right now:
What type of person would I like to be with? What qualities am I looking for? Is chemistry important? can I find that person? Do I want to date right now? How can I meet someone that I may be compatible with? How to deal with rejection? What should I do if they stop calling? And for some, how do I deal with someone who actually accepts me for who I am?!
For all of these questions, individual counseling can be very helpful in finding your answers, and the myriad number of other questions that singles experience.
Singles Counseling In A Relationship
Perhaps you’re already in a relationship but your relationship doesn’t make you as happy as it used to. The same issues keep popping up but your partner can’t or won’t come to couples counseling.
You don’t really want to drag them along but you might be thinking that coming in by yourself may not be of much help. Actually, as it turns out, new research is showing that individual therapy can be very effective at strengthening a relationship.
Help With Work and Career Issues
Many people also turn to me for work and career counseling. Research is proving that the stressors of working in the 21st century are increasing at all levels of employment. This is also true for entrepreneurs. Again, it doesn’t really matter where you are in school or in your career. We all need help from time to time with this too.
The Real Key To Your Success
No matter the form of counseling, your commitment to your own growth is the ultimate key to a successful outcome. There are also added benefits to entering counseling. One of the many benefits that my clients experience is that having their own individual counseling can also help enhance other important relationships or situations that may not have been the initial focus or reason why they entered counseling to begin with.
The bottom line is this: if you are truly committed to growing, you can dramatically improve the quality of your life. You can be happier. You can feel hopeful. You can get so much enjoyment out of your life. Having worked successfully with hundreds, if not thousands of people, It’s very likely that I can help you. I invite you to contact me for a free 15-minute phone consultation to help you explore what is happening in your life and to see if I am a good fit for what you are looking for in a therapist.
Start Here: Helpful Articles for Individual Growth and Emotional Well-Being
Over the years, I’ve written many articles for individuals who are navigating anxiety, dating, breakups, family stress, uncertainty, career pressure, relationship questions, and personal growth. Some people come to individual counseling because they feel stuck. Others come because they want to better understand themselves, make healthier choices, or improve the quality of their lives.
Below are some of the most helpful and most-read articles from my blog, organized by topic so you can start with what fits your life right now. Use what helps, skip what doesn’t, and remember: growth is rarely a straight line.
Personal Growth, Self-Understanding
& Life Transitions
Anxiety, Stress, Sleep & Emotional
Well-Being
Depression, Grief & Emotional Pain
Single Life, Dating & Relationship Decisions
Boundaries, Red Flags & Difficult Relationships
Frequently Asked Questions
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Individual therapy may be right for you if you feel stuck, overwhelmed, anxious, sad, disconnected, or unsure how to move forward. You do not have to be in crisis to benefit from therapy. Many people seek individual counseling because they want to understand themselves better, improve relationships, make healthier choices, or navigate a difficult season with more clarity and support.
A good place to start is by asking: “Is what I’m doing now helping me feel better, function better, or live more in line with who I want to be?” If the answer is no, therapy may offer a useful next step.
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Individual therapy can help with a wide range of concerns, including anxiety, depression, grief, stress, relationship difficulties, dating questions, family conflict, work and career stress, life transitions, low self-esteem, and feeling emotionally stuck.
Therapy is not about having someone “fix” you. It is about creating a safe, thoughtful space where you can better understand what is happening, identify healthier patterns, and develop practical tools for your life.
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Yes. Individual therapy can help you better understand what triggers your anxiety, how it shows up in your body and thoughts, and what you can do to respond more effectively.
The goal is not to pretend stress does not exist. The goal is to help you build steadier ways to manage it, reduce avoidance, calm your nervous system, and make decisions from a clearer place.
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Yes. Depression, grief, and emotional pain can make life feel smaller, heavier, and more isolating. Individual therapy can provide support as you sort through sadness, loss, disappointment, loneliness, or major life changes.
Therapy cannot erase pain, but it can help you carry it differently. With support, many people begin to feel less alone, more grounded, and more able to take the next small step forward.
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Absolutely. Many people come to individual therapy because of relationship stress: dating concerns, breakups, toxic patterns, family tension, trust issues, or uncertainty about a partner.
Individual therapy can help you understand your own needs, boundaries, communication patterns, and choices. While you cannot control another person’s behavior, you can work on your own responses, clarity, and emotional well-being.
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Individual therapy focuses on you: your thoughts, feelings, history, choices, patterns, and personal growth. It can include relationship concerns, but the work is centered on your own experience and development.
Couples therapy focuses on the relationship itself. In couples therapy, both partners participate so they can work on communication, trust, conflict, intimacy, and shared patterns together. Sometimes individual therapy and couples therapy can both be helpful, depending on the situation.
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No. You do not need to wait until things are falling apart to begin therapy. In fact, many people start therapy because they want to prevent patterns from getting worse or because they sense that something in their life needs attention.
Therapy can be helpful during a crisis, but it can also support growth, self-awareness, decision-making, stress management, and healthier relationships. Rest and support do not have to be earned.
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Yes. Life transitions can stir up anxiety, grief, hope, confusion, and self-doubt all at once. Therapy can help you slow down, sort through your options, and make decisions that are more aligned with your values.
This may include changes in relationships, career, family roles, health, aging, loss, divorce, becoming a parent, or entering a new stage of life. Growth is rarely a straight line, and support can help you move through transition with more steadiness.
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My approach is compassionate, practical, and collaborative. I work with you to better understand the patterns that may be keeping you stuck and to develop healthier ways of responding to stress, relationships, emotions, and life decisions.
Therapy is not one-size-fits-all. We will look at what you are facing, what matters most to you, and what kind of support will be most useful. The goal is to help you build insight, resilience, and practical tools you can use outside of the therapy room.
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Yes, confidentiality is a central part of therapy. What you share in therapy is treated with care and privacy.
There are some legal and ethical exceptions, such as concerns about serious risk of harm to yourself or others, abuse or neglect of a child, elder, or dependent adult, or certain court/legal requirements. I will discuss confidentiality with you so you understand how your privacy is protected and where the limits are.
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Yes. Individual therapy is available both in person at the Westwood office and remotely via secure Zoom telehealth sessions for clients throughout California.
We can discuss whether telehealth is a good fit for your needs, comfort level, and circumstances. The goal is to create a setting where you can speak openly and receive meaningful support.
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The first step is to schedule a free 15-minute consultation. This gives us a chance to talk briefly about what you are looking for, what you are hoping therapy can help with, and whether working together feels like a good fit.
You do not need to have everything figured out before reaching out. Sometimes the first step is simply saying, “I think I could use some support.”